Tune Tuesday – It’s Your Thing

Today the great singer, songwriter, and producer Ronald Isley celebrates his 83rd birthday. He was born in Cincinnati, Ohio and like many singers, started singing in the church choir. After he appeared on a TV amateur hour show, he and his brothers decided to move to New York to continue their musical careers.

The Isley Brothers had some success recording some doo-wop songs, but in 1959 they signed with RCA records and released their smash hit “Shout!” They would eventually sign with Motown records, but always felt as though they never got the attention or promotion that other groups on the label received, so the split from Motown and returned to their own label – T-Neck Records, which they started in 1964. This allowed them a lot more control over what they recorded.

In one interview, Ronald Isley says he wrote this song while dropping his daughter off at school one day. He didn’t want to forget the lyrics so he hummed it in his head and rushed straight to his mother’s house to write it out. He sang it for his eldest brother O’Kelly, who thought it to be a hit, so they set up studio time to record it. They were right – it was a hit. It shot straight up to number 2 on the charts (prevented by The Age of Aquarius from hitting number 1).

The song’s success led to some really nasty legal battles. Berry Gordy of Motown Records filed a lawsuit claiming The Isleys were still under contract when they recorded It’s Your Thing. The court case went on for 18 years before a federal judge ruled that The Isley Brothers had recorded it after the Motown contract had lapsed. I have to wonder if Gordy pursued the lawsuit for so long because of the salt that the Isleys rubbed in his open wound. You see, in February of 1970 the Isley Brothers became the first former Motown act to win a Grammy Award for Best R&B Vocal Performance by a Duo or Group.

To me, this song remains one of the “funkiest” songs in history! There are so many great things happening instrumentally in the song, and Ronald’s vocal is fantastic!

Happy Birthday, Mr. Isley!

It’s Your Thing

It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to
It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to

If you want me to love you, maybe I will
Believe me woman, it ain’t no big deal
You need love now, just as bad as I do
Make’s me no difference now, who you give your thing to

It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to
It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to

It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to
It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to

I’m not trying to run your life, I know you wanna do what’s right
Give your love now, to whoever you choose
How can you lose, with the stuff you use now

It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to
It’s your thing, do what you wanna do
Don’t let me tell you, who to sock it to

It’s your thing, I do what I wanna do
I can’t tell you, who to sock it to

Movie Music Mondays – Mermaids

Today Cher celebrates birthday 78. If I were still on the radio, I’d follow that line with, “and her nose celebrates number 52!” Sorry.

Cher enjoyed musical success as a duo with with Sonny Bono, as a solo singer, a television star on The Sonny and Cher Comedy Hour, and as a movie actress in Silkwood, Mask, The Witches of Eastwick, Moonstruck (for which she won an Academy Award for Best Actress) and Mermaids. Mermaids was a 1990 comedy/drama which also starred Bob Hoskins, Winona Ryder and Christina Ricci in her film debut.

The film was set in the 1960’s and the soundtrack is full of some great songs from Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons, Lesley Gore, Smokey Robinson and the Miracles and, of course, Cher. Cher covered Barbara Lewis’ 1965 hit “Baby I’m Yours” and Betty Everett’s 1964 hit The Shoop Shoop Song (It’s in His Kiss). Shoop Shoop was released as a single in November of 1990 and only went to number 33 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. That is actually surprising to me, because it still plays in a pretty heavy rotation on the Adult Contemporary stations.

Happy Birthday, Cher!

The Shoop Shoop Song (It’s in His Kiss)

Does he love me? I wanna know
How can I tell if he loves me so?

Oh no, you’ll be deceived
(Is it in his eyes?)
Oh no, he’ll make believe

If you wanna know (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
If he loves you so (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
It’s in his kiss (that’s where it is, oh yeah)

Oh no, it’s just his charms
(In his warm embrace?)
Oh no, that’s just his arms

If you wanna know (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
If he loves you so (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
It’s in his kiss (that’s where it is)
Oh, oh, it’s in his kiss (that’s where it is)

Oh, oh, oh, kiss him (hold him)
And squeeze him tight
And find out what you wanna know
If it’s love, if it really is
It’s there in his kiss

Oh no, that’s not the way
And you’re not listenin’ to all I say

If you wanna know (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
If he loves you so (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
It’s in his kiss (that’s where it is)
Oh, yeah, it’s in his kiss (that’s where it is)

Oh, oh, oh, kiss him (hold him)
And squeeze him tight
And find out what you wanna know
If it’s love, if it really is
It’s there in his kiss

Oh no, that’s not the way
And you’re not listenin’ to all I say

If you wanna know (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
If he loves you so (shoop, shoop, shoop, shoop)
It’s in his kiss (that’s where it is, oh yeah)
Oh, yeah, it’s in his kiss (that’s where it is, oh yeah)
Oh, it’s in his kiss (that’s where it is)

Turntable Talk #26 – Music Music!

It’s time once again for another edition of Turntable Talk – our monthly, music topic from Dave at A Sound Day. This time around Dave’s topic is music! He says, “There are many great songs about music, so let’s highlight them. Pick a song you like either about music itself (eg, ‘I love Music’ and so on)  or about the life of a musician making music . Or anything else you can think of about music… about music!”

To have a topic that is as broad as this only makes it more difficult to decide what to write about. The first thing I did was think of all the songs I could with “music” or “song” in the title. Then I began to think about the genres of music – blues, rock, etc… Then songs about writing songs and playing music and musical instruments came to mind. My list of possibilities was huge, however, with each song I looked at, I just didn’t feel like I had one that “fit” the topic.

The more I looked at my list of songs and artists, my mind began to think of songs that mentioned other musicians. Night Shift by the Commodores mentions Marvin Gaye and Jackie Wilson. Then there was Sweet Soul Music by Arthur Conley which mentions some of the great soul singers. The more I thought along these lines, I came to my choice. This choice could have easily been featured last month, as many think of it as a novelty song.

When I think music, I think about singers, radio, DJ’s, record labels, dance crazes, and the many hit songs that made people feel good. I think about how they all come together to make music an experience. When you listen to Life is a Rock by Reunion, in just over three minutes you get a very quick music history lesson and travel through decades of “music.”

Reunion was founded in 1974 by songwriters Paul DiFranco and Norman Dolph. Truth be told, they had little success with the group, that is until they tapped bubblegum pop veteran Joey Levine to revamp a song they had shelved called “Life Is A Rock.”

Songfacts.com says : “I loved it, thought it was great,” Levine said of the original tune. “But I told ’em that the record they cut with it was really missing the mark. I’d love to just spruce it up.” The resulting demo, recorded at the Hit Factory in New York City, is a celebration of all things music. Levine rattles off a list of iconic musicians and beloved songs, interrupted by a soaring chorus about the magic of radio.”

The machine-gun vocal delivery,” DiFranco told Billboard, “is a result of no rehearsing whatsoever. The key was to read the lines rapidly and not to memorize them at all.” Levine, who was in the Ohio Express and had hits with Yummy, Yummy, Yummy and Chewy, Chewy helped to make the song sound “happy.” DiFranco told Rolling Stone, “We’re in the business to make happy, funny records, and I think right now it’s important for music to stay happy.”

Thanks to “Life Is A Rock,” Reunion was a one-hit-wonder. RCA tried to convince the makeshift group to record an album and go on tour, but Levine reasoned the associated costs would eat into the royalties from their Top 10 hit. “I figured it was just a novelty idea,” he explained.

As fast as he rattles off those lyrics, I cannot imagine ever being able to do that live in concert. I guess it can be done, though, Billy Joel does it for We Didn’t Start the Fire.

This was one of those songs that they cut special versions for Top 40 stations across the country. The line the changed in the chorus was “Life is a rock, but the radio rolled me.” The singers would substitute call letters for specific stations. Super CFL in Chicago’s was sang, “Life is a rock, but CFL rolled me..” (Side note: This still happens. When I worked on the country station, they would insert the call letters, city names, specific rivers, and sports teams in the lyrics on certain songs.)

Life is a Rock was a top 10 record in 1974. I will post the video with the lyrics on screen, however, I will warn you, it is even hard to read along because Levine sings them so fast! Thanks to Song Facts this will help you a bit, too:

Musicians and songwriters mentioned by name (in order of appearance) are: B. Bumble and the Stingers, Mott the Hoople, Ray Charles Singers, Lonnie Mack, Twangin’ Eddy (Duane Eddy), Poco, Deep Purple, Sam Cooke, Lesley Gore, Ritchie Valens, Mahavishnu Orchestra, Richard Perry, Phil Spector, Jeff Barry, The Righteous Brothers, The Archies, Harry Nilsson, Fats Is Back (Fats Domino), Brenda & the Tabulations, Carly Simon, Noddy Holder, Johnny Cash, Johnny Rivers, Mungo Jerry, Peter, Paul and Mary, Dr. John, Doris Day, Smokey Robinson and the Miracles, Bonnie Bramlett, Wilson Pickett, Screamin’ Jay Hawkins, Dale Hawkins, Ronnie Hawkins, John Denver, Donny Osmond, J. J. Cale, ZZ Top, David Bowie, Steely Dan, Edgar Winter, Joanie Sommers, Osmond Brothers, Johnny Thunders, Eric Clapton, and Stephen Foster. Legendary disc jockeys Alan Freed and Murray the K also earn nods.

Whew! That’s not even the song references!

Thanks once again to Dave for a great topic and allowing me to take part. Thanks to the other bloggers who participate. I always enjoy reading their contributions. Finally, thanks to YOU for reading!

A Smashing Good Time

Ever feel so stressed out that you just want to break something?  I know I have.  If you need a bit of stress relief, here in Michigan there is a place for you.

I was scrolling Facebook tonight and the wife of a high school buddy posted photos of my friend busting up stuff.  He was suited up in some sort of hazmat-looking outfit and a face shield.  She posted videos and pictures of him in a room with glass bottles/plates and he was smashing them up with baseball bats, golf clubs, and a variety of other stuff.

I have no idea how the whole thing works, but it seems to be something that is a hit with their customers.  They have even teamed up with a comedy club that supplies empty bottles.

Whoever came up with this million dollar idea is a genius.  Sometimes I think that all places of employment should have a smash therapy room in them.

Check out their website –

https://www.mismashtherapy.com

A Classical Education

Back in December I stumbled upon an online course on Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. It was presented by Hillsdale College and was a free course. It consisted of 4-6 lectures and I truly enjoyed it. Recently, I finished up yet another online course from Hillsdale on the History of Classical Music.

As someone who played in band throughout my school years, I was exposed to a lot of classical music. As a band member, it is an amazing experience to be playing a melody while a counter melody is playing with you. It is just as amazing when your section plays beautiful harmonies. Rehearsing a song and watching it all come together is so satisfying.

That being said, I couldn’t wait to get into this course. The overview states: Music’s ability to excite or soothe, to celebrate or console, to capture the inarticulate expressions of the human spirit make it the ideal companion for Western Civilization’s greatest achievements. Music is intertwined with the events of history. The developments of classical music correspond to key moments in science, politics, and religion. Classical music can be studied, it can be understood from the perspective of historical events and the lives of composers, but most of all, it should be enjoyed.

The instructor was Hyperion Knight and he was a wealth of knowledge. Throughout the course, he would occasionally play a piece or make an illustration on the piano for further explanation. We tend to believe that classical music is old or “ancient,” but Professor Knight was so good about relating what was going on in history at the time of some of these pieces.

The course lections were about the Development of Music, The Baroque Era (Bach, Vivaldi, and Handel), The Classical Period (Haydn and Mozart), and The Classical Period (Beethoven and Schubert). The final lecture is not a lecture at all. It is a mini concert performed by Professor Knight featuring some classical music standards.

Much like the Dickens course, I never really felt like it was a class or a lecture. It was really just an enjoyable journey through music history. Classical music is not for everyone, but if you are interested, you can enroll here: https://online.hillsdale.edu/courses/classical-music

Friday Photo Flashback

This week, I began a new feature called The Music of My Life and began featuring music from every year of my life. I began in 1970, and I thought I would stay in 1970 for the Friday Photo Flashback. As a bonus, because I couldn’t decide on one picture, you get two!

The above photo was taken shortly after I came home from the hospital. It is one of my favorite photos of my dad and me. There really isn’t a whole lot happening in the background, but there are some things that really stick out to me.

First, I was a pretty good looking kid! Next, my dad, for as long as I can remember always had a mustache. The fact that he doesn’t have one in this picture makes it a bit more special to me. Then, there are his sideburns. It seems like he always seemed to have those, but they are a bit more prominent here. Dad is also wearing a white t-shirt in this picture. It seems like he would wear those often when he was just walking or working around the house. Finally, we both have hair in this photo! LOL

The above photo is a bit after the one with my dad. I love my mom’s smile in this picture! Despite my brother and I making fun of her about them in later years, I love that she’s wearing the horn-rimmed glasses.

This photo was taken at my grandma’s house. So it makes it a nostalgic trip to remember the lay out of her house. It seems like my grandma had that yellow couch forever! There was a green chair made of the same scratchy fabric that went with it. It is no surprise to see the paneling on the wall behind it. If I could stretch the right side of the picture a bit more, directly above the couch was grandma’s cuckoo clock.

On the left side of the picture is a napkin holder that I vaguely remember her having. Later on, they just used paper towels that they stacked in a Tupperware sort of container. Directly behind my mom was grandma’s fridge, which always had a big block of parmesan cheese that she would grate fresh for spaghetti dinners. The freezer was on top and I remember they’d have Wonder Bread in thick plastic bags in there. I wish I knew what that thing is above the freezer next to that vase. It looks like fake flowers, but I don’t know.

Behind me is the stove, which produced some of the most amazing meals I’ve ever eaten! It looks like there was an analog clock on it to the right. I can see one of grandma’s percolators on the stove, as well as the infamous casserole dish that everyone had in the 70’s! In the middle of the stove top, I can see the glass salt and pepper shakers that my grandma used all her life. They are just like the ones you used to see in restaurants before they were replaced by those plastic ones.

There is actually a space between the stove and that counter top behind me. If I were to stretch that side of the photo to the left, the sink would be against the wall and another cupboard would be on the left side of a window that was above the sink. This was the spot where my father was aggravating my grandma one day and she went to kick him in his behind, but he moved. She fell and he stood there laughing. It was probably not funny for her at the time, but she certainly laughed about it whenever she retold the story.

There was a time when grandma always had a table cloth on the table, but as we got older, she stopped. I’m guessing it is because we stained them with food or drink. She eventually just had placemats. For whatever reason, I remember that there was a wooden bowl in the middle of the table that had fake wax fruit in it. My brother and I always seemed to pluck the plastic grapes off the plastic vines.

I have so many wonderful memories of that house, my grandparents, my mom, and my dad. I am glad to have so many photos to remind me of those days…..

First Game in the Books

I took a day off this week so that I could watch Ella’s first T-Ball game. What a treat it was to see he in her uniform. You can’t see in the picture, but they gave her baseball socks that went all the way up to her waist when when I put them on!

Being at the game took me back to when I coached my older boys. That organized chaos hasn’t changed a bit. I felt so bad for the coach. It was only him and another gal trying to get everyone organized, so I stepped in and helped where I could.

Just as I remembered it years ago, the kids love their turn at bat, but hate being in the field. Each team has like 13 kids on it and every kid gets a turn at bat. They get a few pitches to swing at and if they don’t hit it, the ball goes on the tee. I helped bring the tee to the plate and grab it when a kid was running home.

Every kid gets to go to first base and advance a base with each batter. When the team’s last batter comes up and hits, everyone runs home.

She got a few good swings in. I need to work with her a bit more this week. I really need to see which way she bats better – left or right. I am still not sure.

Out in the field, it get’s tougher to keep them focused. There really is no outfield, because no one really hits the ball far. So everyone sort of hangs in the infield. Ella was between 1st and 2nd base when she was out in the field for this game.

It took me a few tries, but I finally got her to get in the “ready” position. It never lasted long. She would often sit and play in the dirt like the other kids.

I love when someone hits the ball because unlike in a baseball game where one fielder gets the ball, every last kid runs to get the ball and fights over who gets the ball. Usually whoever gets it holds it up like the won something. By the second time we were in the field, there was one kid who got that you had to throw the ball to first base.

As we were in the field the second time, with about 3 more batters to go before the game was over, Ella said to me, “Daddy, I’m cold.” A breeze had picked up and it was getting a bit chilly. “I need a blanket!” I chuckled and said in my best Tom Hanks, “There’s no blankets in t-ball!”

When the game was over, the teams lined up and gave each other high fives. All the team members got a snack and that was that. On the ride home, it became apparent that the game took a lot out of her …

What an absolute JOY to watch her out there.

The Music of My Life – 1970

As I celebrate birthday 54, I am borrowing (ok, stealing) an idea from another blogger. I have altered the idea a bit, and may decide to change it up after a few posts …

I am calling the feature “The Music of My Life.” I plan on starting with the year I was born and picking 10 favorites from that year. I will move on through the years one by one. I doubt I will go too deep in the more modern years, so I’m not sure how long this will go on.

Right now, I am hoping to do this once a week. That’s a bit adventurous of me, but I am really hoping to be able to work ahead on these.

So what sources am I using to choose my songs? First, I am looking at the Billboard Year-End Top 100. This can be a problem as some of the songs from the list may have been released the year before. Next, I am looking a lists from various sources with all the songs released as singles for each year. Finally, my buddy Max (who may or may not be the blogger I stole this idea from), gave me a cool website to check out. It is acclaimedmusic.net

With that being said, let’s take a look at some of my favorites from the year I was born…

1970

I may as well start with the song that was number one on my birthday – American Woman by The Guess Who. It was released in January of 1970 and was the third biggest song of the year. A cool thing about this song – the whole thing was improvised on stage during a concert after Randy Bachman was tuning his guitar after breaking a string!

American Woman – The Guess Who

Next, a group that never had a number one song. That has always baffled me. CCR had a few hits in 1970. Travelin’ Band was released in January of 1970 and has a very 1950’s sort of sound to it. John Fogerty has been said to have channeled a bit of Little Richard in the vocal delivery of this song. Coincidentally, CCR was sued by the publishing company that had the rights to Little Richard’s “Good Golly Miss Molly,” because they sounded so much alike. The case was settled out of court.

Travelin’ Band – CCR

I always loved the sound of Dave Edmunds I Hear You Knocking. In 1970, he was getting ready to cut a version of Wilbert Harrison’s Let’s Work Together, when he heard that the group Canned Heat had just cut it. As he was driving in his car, a radio station played the Smiley Lewis’ 1955 version of I Hear You Knocking. He realized just how similar it was to Let’s Work Together and knew he wouldn’t have to change much and recorded it. He played all the instruments on the song (except maybe the bass guitar).

I Hear You Knockin’ – Dave Edmunds

Another group I have always liked is Badfinger. The song was recorded in May of 1970 and released in October. The band loved this song, but some of the folks at Apple records had no interest in releasing it. In August, the American director at Apple in New York heard the tape and liked it. The song was remixed and released as a single. It was a Top 10 single.

No Matter What – Badfinger

Released in January of 1970, Norman Greenbaum had a Top 5 Hit with Spirit in the Sky. Jesus is mentioned many times throughout the song, so I remember being surprised to read that Norman was Jewish! In a 2006 interview, he said that he was inspired to write the song after watching country singer Porter Wagoner singing a gospel song on TV. He said that he thought, “I can do that,” and wrote “my own gospel song.”

As far as the unique sound of the opening guitar lick? Normal used a Fender Telecaster with a fuzz-tone circuit built into the body to generate the song’s characteristic guitar sound. Because of the song’s length and religious tone of the lyrics, the record company was initially reluctant to issue the song. They came to their senses and finally released as a single after two other singles from the album had poor sales. The rest … is history.

Spirit in the Sky – Norman Greenbaum

Edwin Starr is one of my favorite Motown singers. In 1970, he released a song co-written by another Motown artist, Barrett Strong. The song is basically a protest song as the Vietnam War was still going on. The song was recorded originally with the Temptations singing it, however, the label decided to withhold the Temptations’ version from single release so as not to alienate that group’s more conservative fans, and had Edwin Starr record and release it.

War – Edwin Starr

By the time I was born, the Beatles were getting ready to call it quits. However, in March of 1970, they released Let It Be. At the time, the song became the highest debut ever on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. It entered the chart at number 6 and went straight to the top. This was the final single released before Paul announced he was leaving the band.

Let It Be – The Beatles

One of the great song intros in classic rock belongs to All Right Now by Free. The song was recorded in January of 1970 and released on my birthday in the UK (May 15). Drummer Simon Kirke said: “‘All Right Now’ was created after a bad gig in Durham. We finished our show and walked off the stage to the sound of our own footsteps. The applause had died before I had even left the drum riser. It was obvious that we needed a rocker to close our shows. All of a sudden the inspiration struck (Bass Player Andy) Fraser and he started bopping around singing ‘All Right Now’. He sat down and wrote it right there in the dressing room. It couldn’t have taken more than ten minutes.” It’s a great jam!

All Right Now – Free

This song fits exactly what many blogger friends and I do often – Turn Back the Hands of Time through music, movies, and nostalgia. One of R&B’s greatest was released in February of 1970 by Tyrone Davis. The song was Davis’ second big hit. It went to number one on the Billboard R&B Chart and went to number three on the Pop Singles Chart.

I’ve always loved the way the intro starts with drum and bass, then adds guitar and keyboard (xylophone?) and finally the strings before Tyrone’s smooth vocal. And who doesn’t sing along with the background singers when they come in? I know I do.

Turn Back the Hands of Time – Tyrone Davis

Finally, we grab a cut from Van Morrison’s 1970 album, Moondance. Into the Mystic is just such a cool song. I guess this would fall into the category of “Yacht Rock” today. It has a spiritual feel to it. One article compared it to Yesterday by the Beatles describing it as “another song where the music and the words seem to have been born together, at the same time, to make one perfectly formed, complete artistic element.”

Van said the use of homophones really lent the song to have alternate meanings. He states: “Originally I wrote it as ‘Into the Misty’. But later I thought that it had something of an ethereal feeling to it so I called it ‘Into the Mystic’. That song is kind of funny because when it came time to send the lyrics in WB Music, I couldn’t figure out what to send them. Because really the song has two sets of lyrics. For example, there’s ‘I was born before the wind’ and ‘I was borne before the wind’, and also ‘Also younger than the sun, Ere the bonny boat was one’ and ‘All so younger than the son, Ere the bonny boat was won’ … I guess the song is just about being part of the universe.”

Into the Mystic – Van Morrison

I hope you enjoyed giving these songs a listen. Picking just 10 was harder than I thought. What about your favorites from 1970??

Up next – 1971….

Tune Tuesday – More

The amazing Bobby Darin was born May 14, 1936. Bobby was a phenomenal talent.  He was a lot like Sammy Davis Jr. in that he was a songwriter, a singer, an actor, and played multiple instruments.  He caught the attention of many, including George Burns, with whom he was good friends.

He began his career writing songs for Connie Francis, and eventually recorded his first song, “Splish Splash,” which was a hit in 1958.  He followed it with many other hits including “Dream Lover,” “Beyond the Sea,” “If I Were a Carpenter”, “Clementine,” “Things,” and “Mack the Knife.” His music was such a big part of that early rock and roll, however, thanks to Mack the Knife, he also had great success with some pop standards.

With so many great songs to pick from, I decided on one that I just love. The song was not exclusive to Bobby Darin, but his version is one of the best. I am talking about “More.”

“More” was the Theme to a movie called Mondo Cane, which is a documentary. According to Wikipedia, the film “uses a variety of music to accompany various segments. Some melodies are used repeatedly, in different styles, each named for the part of the movie where the music is used. Of the 15 music tracks on the soundtrack album, one melody is presented 6 times, another melody 2 times. The melody which became known as ‘More’ is presented 4 times.”

The song was first heard in the US as a pop instrumental hit by jazz trombone player Kai Winding in 1963. The instrumental version went to #8 on Billboard’s Hot 100 Chart. Bobby cut his version of the song for his album “From Hello Dolly to Goodbye Charlie.”

The song works so well as a ballad, but Bobby’s take on it swings and is so good! I love the lyrics and dedicate this one to my wife …

More

More than the greatest love the world has known
This is the love that I give to you alone
More than the simple words I try to say
I only live to love you more each day

More than you’ll ever know
My arms long to hold you so
My life will be in your keeping
Waking sleeping laughing weeping

Longer than always is a long long time
But far beyond forever you’ll be mine
I know I’ve never lived before
And my heart is very sure, no-one else could love you more

More than the greatest love the world has known
This is the love that I give to you alone
More than the simple words I try to say
I only live to love you more each day

More than you’ll ever know
My arms long to hold you so
My life will be in your keeping
Waking sleeping laughing weeping

Longer than always is a long long long time
But far beyond forever you’ll be mine
I know I’ve never lived before
And my heart is very sure, no-one else could love you more

There are many biographies available about the life of Bobby Darin.  His son, Dodd, wrote one entitled Dream Lovers which talks much about his dad and his mom (Sandra Dee).  It’s an honest read.

Bobby had health issues throughout his life and his heart already had issues.  In 1973, he neglected to take the antibiotics he was prescribed for his heart before a dentist visit.  He ended up developing sepsis which spread throughout his body.  This made him weak and affected one of the valves in his heart.  He checked himself into the hospital for another open heart surgery (he had two heart valves replaced in 1971).  After a six hour surgery, he died in the recovery room on December 20, 1973.  He never regained consciousness.  Bobby Darin was 37 years old.

Mother’s Day Recap

This was the first Mother’s Day since becoming a mom that Sam had the day off. I was so glad that she was able to take the day and spend it with us. She worked the night before and on the way home, she called and told me to make sure the kids were dressed. We were heading out somewhere when she got home.

I hurried and got the kids dressed, got myself dressed and was ready when she got home. She came in and changed clothes before we left, so I just assumed we were all going to go out to breakfast. Instead, she drove to the cemetery where my mom is buried. She told me she wasn’t going to let Mother’s Day go by without taking me there.

The innocence of my kids always chokes me up. As we walked up, Sam said, “We have to see grandma on Mother’s Day. She was daddy’s mommy.” When we got to her headstone, Andrew said, “I can’t see grandma.” That was the first choke up. Then Ella had found what she called a “heart shaped rock” and wanted to put it on her headstone. “I want grandma to have it.” Choke up number two. In the car, on the way out, Andrew starts to get upset. Sam asked why and he said, “Grandma can’t hold me.” Choke up number three.

When we got home, Sam got to see the gifts that the kids got for her.

They each drew her a picture/card and we placed a paint handprint inside. We bought her some hair stuff (hair ties, clips, a mirror, and stuff she uses to get ready). The kids also picked out a beautiful dozen roses for her. Finally, we made sure she got a delicious cake!

When our Head Start friend came over, we made feet flowers for her with her favorite colors.

After we opened her presents, she got to laid down and nap since she worked the night before. Then the kids and I went outside and we detailed her car.

We debated doing a BBQ for dinner, but she said she was really craving some Chinese food, so that’s what we got! By 7pm, the entire family was just exhausted and we were all in bed and asleep by 8! LOL

I am so happy that we got to celebrate her for mother’s day!! She is so special to all of us!